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Thursday, December 29, 2011
Friday, December 23, 2011
My cold feet for the Holidays
I noticed a weird pattern among the guys I dated during the holidays. I basically call it the Holiday Cold Feet. Usually this trend happens for me around Valentine's, Christmas and Sweetest day. But it varies for other people. So basically Holiday Cold Feet is when your lover dumps you because a holiday is coming up. Which I feel it is completely Wrong. Men don't know that other men are looking at their women during the Holidays. So brothers if you don't want a Robbery to happen to you during the holidays DON'T dump your GIRLFRIENDS.People seem to date when it is convenient for them. It sad that people don't consider their partner when they are making drastic decision such as a break up. Guys don't even think how their girlfriend will feel when they are dumped and hurting.
I remember dating a guy a week before valentines day he dumped me! Then a week after he asked me out . Other guys that I have dated will not accept my calls on holidays. So as for me I'm tired of dating guys that doesn't appreciate my worth.The next guy who dumps because of the Holidays I will chop HIS balls off and feed it to the Pigeons. So I have decided that I'm going to leave my dating life into GOD'S hands. I know at the due time God will send someone who can afford and appreciate me.
Please don't get me wrong I am not a materialistic girl. I am the complete opposite of that. Trust me I am, I never grew up with a silver spoon in my mouth. I just want a guy who can tell me, "Merry Christmas babe. Although times are tough I just wanted to tell you I love you". That is the best Christmas gift to me.
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I remember dating a guy a week before valentines day he dumped me! Then a week after he asked me out . Other guys that I have dated will not accept my calls on holidays. So as for me I'm tired of dating guys that doesn't appreciate my worth.The next guy who dumps because of the Holidays I will chop HIS balls off and feed it to the Pigeons. So I have decided that I'm going to leave my dating life into GOD'S hands. I know at the due time God will send someone who can afford and appreciate me.
Please don't get me wrong I am not a materialistic girl. I am the complete opposite of that. Trust me I am, I never grew up with a silver spoon in my mouth. I just want a guy who can tell me, "Merry Christmas babe. Although times are tough I just wanted to tell you I love you". That is the best Christmas gift to me.
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Thursday, December 22, 2011
women please don't traumitze ME!!!!!!!!!!
Chei, chineke I can not believe what I saw at the gym! This woman came to the gym with no bra on!!!. Nonsense, does she think her breast are Christmas bells? They should not be ringing like that,eh. I can not imagine myself going to the gym with no bra on. My breast size is 40 D. So if I attempt to run on the treadmill with no bra, my breast will knock me out and put me a coma! Hey, women, women put a bra on before coming to the gym. Or is your breast magnets for men? Is this the new way to attract men. Please ooo if you are looking for a good bra, Avon sells them. You can find them on the link belowIf you can't afford them just contact me I will give it to you FREE! But please do not traumatize me like this again or else I refuse to go to the gym! I will remain a thick madame
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Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Is your lover a commitment phobe?
Two things struck me this week. One was a conversation with one of my girlfriends and the other thing we will talk about alittle bit later. Ok so my friend has been dating a her man for about four years and she wants a ring. The problem is he doesn't want to settle. It's not like he doesn't love her. He just doesn't want to commit. The first thing that came to mind was what was his childhood like? Then second question I had was, what was his dating life like before you?
I asked this question because the love a child recieves determines how you will love as an adult. I remember back in the day I used to tell my mama that "I never wanted to get married and never wanted children. At first she thought I was gay. Little did she know I was traumitized!
I remember particularly, going over a close family friends house and the parents got into a major arguement. The arguement escalated into violence that night. I remember trying to restrain the parents. I was screaming, crying and everything I could to do to stop it, I tried it. Everytime we were over there fights like that would start. I felt like I was walking on eggshell, so I would quietly stay in conner and not say anything. Instead of holding themselves accountable, they blamed the kids and everything else for their misbehavior. Never themselves though. I witness that domestic violence for about three years. It started when I was about twelve and in middle school.
You know middle school is the time for crushes and boyfriends. My experience with my first boyfriend wasn't the greatest. Also in middle school I witness a lot of my friends parents getting divorced. So I feel that my experience with relationships at an early age caused me to be scarred emotionally when it came to commitment. I dated a lot of great guys in high school but because I had a deep fear of commitment I never really gave my all in relationships. So boys were like toys you break them and move on. But there is hope for me.
I got to see the couple receive counseling and prayers. Right now as we speak they are fine and happily married. But they left me mentally and emotionally scarred. But I received my breakthrough by a church intervention. It was a young adult single convention at my church and one of the topic was marriage and commitment. I gathered courage to expressed all the traumatizing things I seen in marriage and spoke about it to the congregation. My church offered me counseling and prayers. Three years later I leave a open mind to the thought of marriage and I fear it no more.
So back to the second thing that struck me was, my pastor preached this week he said,"Some of us lost our innocence and need to go back to being virgins at love." I feel like some of us has been broken, so many times that we see no point to committing.
So if your lover is a commitment phobe, ask if there is anything traumatizing that happen in their childhood or do they have any fears?. Because if a man never seen his father in his life. If a girl sees her auntie get beat every night. How do you think your lover knows how to express their love, when their life has been so traumatic? Therefore they play out what they experienced in their childhood into their love life. My advice to these couples is to seek counseling and maybe prayers, like I did. So your burden will be light.
This heart felt blog was written by your girl Chinonso Nkwocha. It took a lot to put this out there.So if you like this blog like it, tweet it and share it.
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I asked this question because the love a child recieves determines how you will love as an adult. I remember back in the day I used to tell my mama that "I never wanted to get married and never wanted children. At first she thought I was gay. Little did she know I was traumitized!
I remember particularly, going over a close family friends house and the parents got into a major arguement. The arguement escalated into violence that night. I remember trying to restrain the parents. I was screaming, crying and everything I could to do to stop it, I tried it. Everytime we were over there fights like that would start. I felt like I was walking on eggshell, so I would quietly stay in conner and not say anything. Instead of holding themselves accountable, they blamed the kids and everything else for their misbehavior. Never themselves though. I witness that domestic violence for about three years. It started when I was about twelve and in middle school.
You know middle school is the time for crushes and boyfriends. My experience with my first boyfriend wasn't the greatest. Also in middle school I witness a lot of my friends parents getting divorced. So I feel that my experience with relationships at an early age caused me to be scarred emotionally when it came to commitment. I dated a lot of great guys in high school but because I had a deep fear of commitment I never really gave my all in relationships. So boys were like toys you break them and move on. But there is hope for me.
I got to see the couple receive counseling and prayers. Right now as we speak they are fine and happily married. But they left me mentally and emotionally scarred. But I received my breakthrough by a church intervention. It was a young adult single convention at my church and one of the topic was marriage and commitment. I gathered courage to expressed all the traumatizing things I seen in marriage and spoke about it to the congregation. My church offered me counseling and prayers. Three years later I leave a open mind to the thought of marriage and I fear it no more.
So back to the second thing that struck me was, my pastor preached this week he said,"Some of us lost our innocence and need to go back to being virgins at love." I feel like some of us has been broken, so many times that we see no point to committing.
So if your lover is a commitment phobe, ask if there is anything traumatizing that happen in their childhood or do they have any fears?. Because if a man never seen his father in his life. If a girl sees her auntie get beat every night. How do you think your lover knows how to express their love, when their life has been so traumatic? Therefore they play out what they experienced in their childhood into their love life. My advice to these couples is to seek counseling and maybe prayers, like I did. So your burden will be light.
This heart felt blog was written by your girl Chinonso Nkwocha. It took a lot to put this out there.So if you like this blog like it, tweet it and share it.
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