Thursday, December 29, 2011

African parents vs. American Parents " The Sex Talk"

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Friday, December 23, 2011

My cold feet for the Holidays

I noticed a weird  pattern among the guys I dated during the holidays. I basically call it the Holiday Cold Feet. Usually this trend happens for me around Valentine's, Christmas and Sweetest day.  But it varies for other people. So basically Holiday Cold Feet is when your lover dumps you because a holiday is coming up. Which I feel it is completely Wrong.  Men don't know that other men are looking at their women during the Holidays. So brothers if you don't want a Robbery to happen to you during the holidays DON'T dump your GIRLFRIENDS.People seem to date when it is convenient for them. It sad  that  people don't consider their partner when they are making drastic decision such as a break up. Guys don't even think how their girlfriend will feel when they are dumped and hurting.

I remember dating a guy a week before valentines day he dumped me! Then  a week after he asked me out . Other guys that I have dated  will not accept my calls on holidays. So as for me I'm tired of dating guys that doesn't appreciate my worth.The next guy who dumps because of the Holidays I will chop HIS balls off and feed it to the Pigeons. So I have decided that I'm going to leave my dating life into GOD'S hands. I know at the due time God will send someone who can afford and appreciate me.

Please don't get me wrong I am not a materialistic girl. I am the complete opposite of that. Trust me I am, I never grew up with a silver spoon in my mouth. I just want a guy who can tell me, "Merry Christmas babe. Although times are tough I just wanted to tell you I love you". That is the best Christmas gift to me.

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Thursday, December 22, 2011

women please don't traumitze ME!!!!!!!!!!

Chei, chineke I can not believe what I saw at the gym! This woman came to the gym with no bra on!!!. Nonsense, does she think her breast are Christmas bells? They should not be ringing like that,eh. I can not imagine myself going to the gym with no bra on. My breast size is 40 D.  So if I attempt to run on the treadmill with no bra, my breast will knock me out and put me a coma!  Hey, women, women  put a bra on before coming to the gym. Or is your breast magnets for men? Is this the new way to attract men. Please ooo if you are looking for a good bra, Avon sells them.  You can find them on the link belowIf you can't afford them just contact me I will give it to you FREE! But please do not traumatize me like this again or else I refuse to go to the gym! I will remain a thick madame
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Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Is your lover a commitment phobe?

Two things struck me this week. One was a conversation with one of my girlfriends and the other thing we will talk about alittle bit later. Ok so my friend has been dating a her man for about four years and she wants a ring. The problem is he doesn't want to settle. It's not like he doesn't love her. He just doesn't want to commit. The first thing that came to mind was what was his childhood like? Then second question I had was, what was his dating life like  before you?


I asked this question because the love a  child recieves determines how you will love as an adult. I remember back in the day I used to tell my mama that "I never wanted to get married and never wanted children. At first she thought I was gay. Little did she know I was traumitized!


 I remember particularly, going over a close family friends house and the parents got into a major arguement. The arguement escalated into violence that night. I remember trying to restrain the parents. I was screaming, crying and everything I could to do to stop it, I tried it. Everytime we were over there fights like that would start.  I felt like I was walking on eggshell, so I would quietly stay in conner and not say anything. Instead of holding themselves accountable, they blamed the kids and everything else for their misbehavior. Never themselves though. I witness that domestic violence for about three years. It started when I was about twelve and in middle school.


You know middle school is the time for crushes and boyfriends. My experience with my first boyfriend wasn't the greatest. Also in middle school I witness a lot of my friends parents getting divorced. So I feel that my experience with relationships at an early age caused me to be scarred emotionally when it came to commitment. I dated a lot of great guys in high school but because I had a deep fear of commitment I never really gave my all in relationships. So boys were like toys you break them and move on. But there is hope for me.


I got to see the couple receive counseling and prayers. Right now as we speak they are fine and happily married. But they left me mentally and emotionally scarred. But I received my breakthrough by a church intervention. It was a young adult single convention at my church and one of the topic was marriage and commitment. I gathered courage to expressed all the traumatizing things I seen in marriage and spoke about it to the congregation. My church offered me counseling and prayers. Three years later I leave a open mind to the thought of marriage and I fear it no more.


So back to the second thing that struck me was, my pastor preached this week he said,"Some of us lost our innocence and need to go back to being virgins at love." I feel like some of us has been broken, so many times that we see no point to committing.


So if your lover is a commitment phobe, ask if there is anything traumatizing that happen in their childhood or do they have any fears?. Because if a man never seen his father in his life. If a girl sees her auntie get beat every night. How do you think your  lover knows how to express their  love, when their life has been so traumatic? Therefore they play out what they experienced in their childhood into their love life. My advice to these couples is to seek counseling and maybe prayers, like I did. So your burden will be light.


This heart felt blog was written by your girl Chinonso Nkwocha. It took a lot to put this out there.So if you like this blog like it, tweet it and share it.
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Wednesday, August 24, 2011

It's Party TIME!!!!!!!!

So many people usually say to me, why don't you wear earrings? What I feel like saying is why is it your business!!! I usually go on to tell them that for me earrings are to heavy for my ears and sometimes certain metals irritate my ears. They go on to tell me that all women should wear earrings and I shouldn't feel like a women without them. In mind I feel like saying,"Who is you tell me how a women should feel"!!!! I mean after years of hearing people say your pretty but you will be much prettier with earrings on, I decided to give them a try again! Perfect opportunity came when I was moving away from Michigan and into Ohio. One of my best childhood friends gave me these beautiful black and red earrings. The major difference was this earrings were made of of beads and it didnt have much metal on it! Which is great for my sensitive skin! I was so excited when she told me, that her and her sisters are having a jewerly party, but sad realizing that I live to far to go. She assured me that I can order my jewerly thru her facebook page and pay thru paypal. For those of you that is going to be in the Inskter, Michigan area, I'm pretty sure you can attend the party on my behave. There is going to be meatpies, music and games and much more! If you can't attend you can place an order online @ http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=25716412 or call 734-334-3184
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Saturday, July 23, 2011

Avon Give-a-way

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Thank you for stopping by! So the other day I was doing some last minute shopping with my mom. She was ranting about a benefit that she was suppose to receive free but it turns out that there was a catch to it or something. You know how moms' can rant and vent about stuff when they are mad! As I was zoning out of the lecture the last thing I can remember her saying is "Chinonso, nothing in this country is ever free! (Thick Nigerian Accent)
                I had to think to myself is what she is saying true? I have received a couple of free things before with no strings attached. Not to say I am rebelling against my mom but, I just have a different opinion. I can even prove it! Here is prove Purely Lovin with Avon is having a give-a-way!!!!! All you have to do is sign up by providing your name, number and email address. I know your thinking whoa! What do you need that personal information for? The answer is simple just to contact you if you win.
              So let's address some common fears. First questions I get commonly is do I have to pay for shipping and handling? The answer is no! Next question will my information be used for any third party.The answer is No. Rather your information will be discarded! Do you send spam emails.The answer is no we hate spam just as much as you do! We only send emails about Exclusive Avon Sales only if you want it.     
               So now that we confronted your fears let's talk about the prizes! One of the prizes is the the Anew Reversalist starter kit. In this kit it includes the Renewal foaming cleanser, Day Renewal, cream, and Emulsion Cream. The reversalist is GREAT for anyone in their Forty's and is experiencing moderate signs of aging. This kit could be price at seventy dollars and it could be yours FREE!



 The next prize is Jewel by Fergie. This is one of fergie's perfume from her line. This perfume is great when you want to be fun and flirty. It is also great for night occasions. It's worth about twenty-two dollars and it could be your for Free!
        So with all this said what stopping you from winning? You can sign up at www.youravon.com/purelylovin The winners will be on August 30,2011. Feel free to add me as a friend on facebook @ www.facebook.com/purelylovin or Follow me on twitter www.twitter.com/purelylovin